Taking a shot (Brooklyn, MN)

Taking a shot

So I m going to start off with honesty.I am have been a very shy black male who is looking for new and exciting relationship experiences. If you are a perceptive person you probably already realize that I am looking for sex. That is my primary aim for putting out this AD. If you haven t already pushed the back button yet I applaud you for your patience.Here s the thing like many a man sex is high on my priority list BUT the catch is I m not against long term or short term dating.I know so far this sounds ridiculous so far I agree it does but the truth is I am more than open to something more than just a casual encounter.You might say well if all you could get is a casual encounter you d take that. It s just that you can t get it. Alright there s a whole lot of truth to that. A whole lot. I would be perfectly pleased with a casual encounter.But againI wouldn t mind making a connection actually I d prefer to make a connection. My libido may be aggressive but my love is old fashioned. And I do have love to give to quote Al Green L-O-V-E is strange to me Oh I can t explain this feeling Can t you see that salvation is freeing It s all in the heavens can t you see You can always depend on me To give you love SoWho I am I am a 35 y o black man wanna-be writer aspiring novelist introverted mess. I work for the city. My dream is to try my hand at writing novels screenplays etc etc I ve started to take writing seriously this year and I am co-writing a screenplay while working on a novel of my own. If it means anything I was considered one of the funniest people in elementary and high school. Although that s not saying much since most people aren t really all that funny. And really I never went out my way to be funny initially people just overheard me making a passing comment and found it humorous.What I am looking for (besides sex) Personally I would consider myself more of a geek than a nerd but I guess those terms can overlap. So it would be nice to find someone who is into the nerd geek culture. Now I don t need to be with someone who shares my exact tastes but a woman I can have a geeky conversation with would be a luxury not a requirement. Now A REQUIREMENT would be a woman who likes to laugh and can make me laugh.. I know that people have different senses of humor and there s nothing more awkward than someone busting a gut over something that seems terribly unfunny but I am willing to compromise I m sure something can overlap if you re a person who likes to laugh.If you are still reading this here are some more disclaimers red flags about me so we can be on the same page.1) I don t have a car I ve got a permit never got around to getting the license or buying a car. 2) Living at home with family at the moment I am employed I am a civil servant aka I work for the city.