Are you 50 - Overweight or not (Orange, CA)

Are you 50 - Overweight or not

Hello I m 57 yrs. 5 11 Caucasian clean cut professional hair just starting to gray. I m trim but still muscular. I don t have 6 pack abs but I m close. I ve been told I m attractive even though I never felt I was. I think I m lucky since not too many men my age have a full head of hair a flat stomach are trim and some muscles. I m just fortunate to have good genes and a severely calorie restricted diet. Five times a week in the gym helps too. Although I ve been thinking about it for a long time I ve come to the realization that I would love to be with a woman who has a strap on. I m not feminine but the idea of a woman doing something like that to me is somehow very intriguing. I have to be honest I m married but my wife is no longer interested in sex. I ve tried asking her for a divorce but she tells me I committed to her and should keep that commitment but she will not address the sex issue. Maybe she s right. I don t know. Funny I caught her cheating a few years ago although she still denies it. Life can be ugly sometimes. It s strange but even if my wife was still interested in sex I m wasn t comfortable asking her never was. I m too embarrassed. Anyway I would be happy just chat about this over coffee. You can see if it s something you are really interested in doing. Perhaps we ll find each other interesting anyway. Let me know. David