Are you 50 - Overweight or Not Assertive In Charge Domineering (Orange, CA)

Are you 50 - Overweight or Not Assertive In Charge Domineering

I ve always been the man in charge of the relationship while not controlling always the leader. Lately I ve been wanting something a little different a woman who is assertive in control yes domineering. I m 57 yrs. 5 11 Caucasian clean cut professional hair just starting to gray. I m trim but still muscular. I don t have 6 pack abs but I m close. I ve been told I m attractive even though I never felt I was. I think I m lucky to have a full head of hair a flat stomach a trim athletic build at my age. I m just fortunate to have good genes along with a severely calorie restricted diet and 5 times a week in the gym helps too. I have to be honest I m married but my wife is no longer interested in sex. I ve tried asking her for a divorce but she tells me I committed to her and should keep that commitment but she will not address the sex issue. Maybe she s right. I don t know. Funny I caught her cheating a few years ago although she still denies it. Life can be ugly sometimes. The realization that I would love to be with a woman who is in control maybe even a strap on even though I m not feminine is intriguing. The idea of a woman being dominant doing something like that to me is scary but exciting. It s strange but even if my wife was still interested in sex I was not comfortable asking her never was.. I was too embarrassed. Anyway I would be happy just chat about this over coffee. You can see if it s something you are really interested in doing. Perhaps we ll find each other interesting anyway. Let me know. David