fun and friendship (Garner, NC)

fun and friendship

Hi. I m an optimist so am putting this out there in hopes of finding the perfect someone. I m also a realist so am skeptical that person and I would cross paths on a site like this but remain hopeful. First of all full disclaimer to be respectful of your time I am a MWM so if that s not your thing I get it and wish you luck in finding what you are looking for. If you re still reading I am approaching my mid-40s attractive well educated employed in management and generally have my life together. Like so many of you I ve struggled for years with the growing apart relationship stagnation etc. I miss the excitement of getting to know someone missing each other and sharing all of our goals and dreams. I miss intimacy (not just physical) knowing someone on a very deep level. I m looking for a friendship and not necessarily anything physical. If that happened it would be with only one person and for the longer term ideally. If you want a friendship with someone who is very up front and willing to put the time and effort needed in I might be for you. Trust is very important to me and I m a great listener and promise to keep whatever you share in confidence. I m a romantic at heart. We ll keep our secret together. Patience and flexibility are required as we both have outside lives. Good communication is also vital. I have a flexible schedule but days are easier but nights are possible. Thanks and have a great rest of your day. Please reach out if anything I ve written resonated and I hope to hear from you.