Looking for someone that enjoys life (Austin, TX)

Looking for someone that enjoys life

I m a seemingly traditional guy looking to find a fun partner to regularly go out with and share life. I am ethically non-monogamous (IOW open) but I haven t been with anyone else in a long time. I m not looking to hook up but I m not looking to fall in love and get married either. I ve been married for over 20 years have kids a good job a dog etc. ) Some would say I m looking for a friend with benefits and I d be fine with that but I probably want a bit more romance than sex. I don t do that well with just casual sex I need us to have mutual attraction things in common and have had some fun.. I m mid 40s have brown hair green eyes have no facial hair no tattoos and am currently on the overweight side but am considered good looking by most people. I don t smoke save the very occasional cigar and I drink socially. I don t and have actually never even tried 420 or any other kind of drugs but I m ok with someone that does 420 if they don t mind me not joining. I love the outdoors love to travel and love a night on the town but I don t like noisy bars as I like to talk. My ideal match would be someone that can go out once or twice a week is between 25-60 (age isn t that important but no one too young or old) someone that likes to talk (current events sports politcs family pets whatever). I m also not especially attracted to any particular race but I happen to be white. As I said my wife will know and she is totally good either meeting you or not meeting you whichever you prefer. Of course that is if we are a good match. I d love to just go out a couple of times to get to know someone first so there is no pressure for anything more serious.I will send pictures upon request as I want this to be discreet (wife knows friends and family not so much).