Deception warning (New York, NY)

Deception warning

Deception is rampant even in church. Here are 4 signs God is warning you about a deceptive person. This includes preachers pastors etc. They are human also. 1. If Someone Claims to Never Be Wrong (Pastors included) This Is a Sign of a Deceptive PersonMuch like the political art of getting asked a hard question and then giving a long non-answer deceptive people are masters at rambling on and on to make themselves look right rather than just saying I m sorry I was actually wrong about that. Rather than admit their wrongs they just try to change the facts around so they look right somehow. While there are certainly times to give a thorough explanation for why we feel we have been misrepresented or misunderstood if someone always does this that is a big red flag. For as 1 John 1 8-10 states If we say we have no sin we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. If we say we have not sinned we make him a liar and his word is not in us. Avoid the smooth talker. Avoid the person who has an explanation for everything but never actually answers your question. A good clue is when a pastor or preacher doesn t like to answer your questions sometimes they say you are rebellious. Avoid the person who always tries to make you feel that you can trust them even though they never show you by their actions that they are trustworthy. 2. When Someone Has to Use Verbal Camouflage to Mask Their Bad Behavior This Is a Sign of a Deceptive PersonWe ve all heard the clich but very true statement Actions speak louder than words. However when you have romantic feelings for someone and you really want a relationship to work it s so easy to search for explanations that make someone s bad behavior more acceptable. And the person who will be all too eager to provide those explanations will be the very person whose behavior has been so questionable. To avoid being deceived you have to look past all the verbal camouflage this person is trying to use to put a positive spin on their sinful actions. No amount of words can make a bad choice good. Words can make bad seem good but bad is always bad when you cut through all the nonsense. Notice the link between actions and honest people compared to lots of words and dishonest people. When words are many transgression is not lacking but whoever restrains his lips is prudent. (Proverbs 10 19) Whoever speaks the truth gives honest evidence but a false witness utters deceit. (Proverbs 12 17) Lying lips are an abomination to the Lord but those who act faithfully are his delight. (Proverbs 12 22) It s very easy to over complicate the process of assessing someone s truthfulness when your emotions and feelings are involved. But when we take a step back and choose to assess the situation with biblical truth and common sense usually it s quite easy to detect a deceptive person. With that said deceptive people are not stupid so they know the way to deceive people is by messing with their emotions. So if someone is simply appealing to your desire so you will close your eyes to the truth don t let them deceive you. Remember what we all learned as kids. It s simple and overused but it remains true Actions speak louder than words. 3. If God Is Showing You Contradictions in What This Person Has Said Over Time He Is Exposing Their DeceptionThe one thing about lies is that the person always has to remember what they lied about and to keep the lie going they will need to make new lies in the future so they don t expose the lies they already told in the past. Eventually the human mind can t keep up with all the false stories one tells and the house of cards always falls down. I like the way Mark Twain put it when he said If you tell the truth you don t have to remember anything. This is so accurate. When someone just tells the truth they won t need to constantly try to remember what they said in the past. Their story will always be consistent because they are not making it up. Truth doesn t change. Proverbs 12 19 says Truthful lips endure forever but a lying tongue is but for a moment. Someone can trick you for a brief period of time but eventually they will start to contradict themselves. Don t give someone the benefit of the doubt if the facts are clearly staring you in the face. 4. If Your Loved Ones Doubt This Person s Sincerity and Truthfulness This Could Be God Warning You Through ThemLove and truth always go together. Hate and lies also always go together. When people really love you they will also be very sensitive to anyone who is lying to you. Their love for you will manifest by sniffing out the lies in those who don t actually love you. Notice these links found in Proverbs 26 24-28. It states When your loved ones are assembled around you they will help you expose the wickedness of this deceptive person. You are the one who has to make the choice on who to believe in your life but it is wise to listen to the counsel of those who have loved you your whole life over the empty words of someone who just came into your life and started all kinds of drama through their deception. It s really not that hard to be honest but it is hard to be keep a lie going. If someone has to work and work to make you believe them don t entertain the spin. If you want to be free from the bondage of deception (caused by listening to false teachers those that are biblically illiterate liars etc.) learn the truth by studying the word of God completely as we are commanded to do don t be destroyed for lack of knowledge of God s word. Another really good reason to study is you will not hear God s word today where you should hear His word (in church). 2 Timothy 2 15 Study to show thyself approved unto God a workman that needeth not to be ashamed rightly dividing the word of truth. John 8 32 And ye shall know the truth and the truth shall make you free. John 17 17 Sanctify them through thy truth thy word is truth. Amos 8 11 Behold the days come saith the Lord GOD that I will send a famine in the land not a famine of bread nor a thirst for water but of hearing the words of the LORD (That famine for hearing the Word of the Lord is upon us now. People are starving for the truth in the Word. Sadly fairy tales false teachings traditions and commandments of men are all that are taught in most churches today. You can overcome the famine by actually studying the word of God yourself what a concept). By studying the Bible yourself you will discover amazing things that sadly you will never hear while sitting in a church pew. Right is right even when everyone is against it wrong is wrong even when everyone is for it . (William Penn)