It is hard to be patient some times. (Novato, CA)

It is hard to be patient some times.

Patience is a funny thing. It is hard to be patient here - looking for a lover a special friends with benefits situation. Discreet NSA sex and friendship with the right woman. And yet if I were making love with you - patience is easier. I can enjoy caressing your body licking you sliding fingers in you rocking on top of you as long as is needed to give you pleasure and make you cum - at least once. To be between your legs tasting you with my hands running over your breasts - I enjoy bringing you to orgasm even if it takes you a while to let go and relax and let go.But here - during the search - that is more difficult. I have an idea of what I am seeking - an attractive woman - physically mentally and intellectually. Some one searching for the same type of arrangement - NSA sex conversation a side step from our normal and regular lives. A true friendship but one where the hearts are close enough to care and far enough away to ease when we part - which we will at some point. I am not looking for a booty call although I do want sex with you. I am not looking for a one night stand although we may meet for quickies I am not looking for a love affair although we will like each other.I can tell you my ideal situation but I am not sure that matters. When we meet - it will be clear if we are a good match. You need to be attractive and fit but not perfect. I hope you are single and can host as I am not and cannot but I am fine if you are married or attached. I want you to be filled with passion lust a desire and enjoyment to please and make me happy along with the ability to let go relax and let me take care of you. I want you to have fantasies desires ideas of things that would be fun and a willingness to share these ideas and try them.I do hope you are a good kisser as I love that - kissing you as I run your lower parts kissing you as I am inside you and then just plain kissing you for our enjoyment. I want to have you in my thoughts most days even if we don t see each other. I want to send you sweet notes by text or chat and smile when I get them from you.Me Outdoorsy strong handsome if you like my looks playful creative a good writer a listener and talker. Private. Discreet. Respectful. Vaxed. Safe. Clean. vasectomy. sensual and sexual.If this makes any sense to you then send me a note please. I am not in a hurry and I am seeking only one person. Yes I have had responses to my posts but have not found a match yet. I am not looking for a pussy - I am looking for a person.